Plus, the men who gravitate towards me are usually “nice guys” who just need a little bit of an edge to succeed wildly with women.
They’re all looking for magical CHEMISTRY and trying to figure out within 5 minutes whether he’s their SOULMATE. And it’s normal to feel frustration when you can’t solve a problem.
The women he wants IGNORE him online, DON’T RETURN his calls after dates, and generally seem to want the PERFECT man. Now, between you and me, it doesn’t take a dating coach to diagnose what ails James. I asked James what he thought that I could do for him. ” “What I’m telling you, James, is that you’re the common denominator in your life.
Even though I bill myself as a dating coach for “smart, strong, successful women”, I still maintain a few male clients.
I enjoy working with guys because, when they’re motivated, they’re hardworking and highly coachable.
Superficiality is an inescapable theme in the online dating world.
Too often, there are daters inhabiting the sites who have less-than-ideal intentions or make it very obvious that they’re interested in playing the field.
After 12 weeks of coaching with me, you know who’s going to be the same? As such, the ONLY thing we can do is change how YOU’RE approaching dating. ” James paused for a second, gritted his teeth, and said, “I don’t want to change very much. Do you get bent out of shape when men IGNORE you online, DON’T FOLLOW UP after dates, and generally seem to want the PERFECT woman?
Do you think that, if only MEN changed, you’d be in a happy relationship by now?
This rule is applicable in most situations, including online dating.