Studies shows that people like people who are similar to them. If she’s philosophical, try your best to be philosophical as well.Use what you’ve learned from her profile to determine what you’re going to say and how you’re going to say it. If she’s a nerdy hipster, you could give the example to the right a shot. Women like being complimented when it’s done correctly, so don’t go for the obvious “you’re hot/sexy/cute/beautiful/gorgeous”.If you are focusing on what you’re going to say next or the thoughts in your head, she will pick up on the fact that she does not have 100% of your attention. The mere thought of having to initiate conversation with other people, let alone a woman, is draining, intimidating, and daunting for introverts. Just remember, half of the population are introverts, so it can be equally hard for women to respond back.
However, that doesn’t mean what works for colleagues or siblings is what works in dating. And remember, proper punctuation is sexy and shows her that you’re at least somewhat literate.
Listen to Okcupid — the way you text a friend should not be the way you text or message a woman you’re interested in. Yes, we said “Frozen”, the Disney movie that swept the world off its feet.
Instead, Ok Cupid recommends using general complimentary words like “cool”, “awesome”, or “fascinating”.
According to Ok Cupid, if you have something in common with a girl you’re interested and don’t bring that up when you reach out to her online, then you’ve wasted a huge opportunity.
I often get asked by my male clients how they can get more dates. If you’re just focused on numbers or sex, then you’re not going to get many numbers, or go on many second dates.
If you're stuck in the online dating world and don't know how to get past the first face-to-face, these tips will help you too.
This means if you are only interested in getting a number to get a date, we understand this on a visceral level, before we’ve even responded to what you’ve said.
One thing to think about is if you’re only interested in getting a number, then most women are not interested in you. For us to give you our number or talk to you longer than 2 minutes, we need to feel a connection.
You also might want to read our article on successful dating profile headlines, which can encourage women to reach out to you first!
One-liners may initially get a woman’s attention; however, what are you doing to keep the conversation going?
We often look to our best girlfriends to give us a thumb up or down on if a guy seems like a good guy or not.