That may sound weird to you, but I KNEW that I was going to wait with my one-day husband.
When TWO believers come together with their hearts committed to Christ..
Spend DAILY time with Him, apply what you learned, serve in your local church, walk in love, pray earnestly for your guy, forgive whoever hurt you-- DO your part.
A lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending.
The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.
My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…
but assuming that they like you in the way that you want them to…
that he likes you will automatically cause you to act in a way that’s more… And as a result, there’s a really good chance that he’ll end up liking you back (in the end) if you assume that he does like you.
In psychology, they call this a “self-fulfilling prophecy”.
BUT deep down, YOU want your relationship to glorify God. God may be trying to speak to you concerning that guy.. If God is cool with you staying with him (and BOTH sides have repented and made a decision to honor God) then start this journey on the same PAGE (amos 3:3). STOP cuddling, rubbing, putting yourself in 1:1 situations and if it's late, you shouldn't be at each others house! (Proverbs ) STOP watching stupid reality TV songs, going to clubs, love-sex songs, pornography or blogs.
YOU want to make things work but you just cannot figure out how to turn off that switch. Do you think that God doesn't look at ya'll playing around with the SAME destest?! SO stop being all sexual as you sing & dance a beyonce song to your guy.
well, that usually leads to them actually liking you!