A few nights later, Ray came from the back office to help me stock books. "Those high school boys are just idiots." I changed the subject with a question about the books.
I know your urges are hard to control especially since you care about her, but the best way to care for her is to let her know that you're ready when she's ready.
Best of luck to you and lots of love to your girlfriend :] i've been dating a girl who was sexually and physically abused by her father from when she was 4-15 and shes 16 now.
she gets very nervous very easily and still has post traumatic stress disorder and has some depression, even tho its gotten a lot better. In this situation, I think 5 months is a little too soon because it was just last year that she has stopped being abused, you know?
In my personal opinion, I think you should wait a little longer and try different things to ease her into it.
Touch her as long as she feels comfortable and let her know that when she says stop or if she freaks out, you will immediately stop.
You really just need to take it slow because it cant be easy for her.I knew that he had a message for me…that I was there for a reason. When you tell me that god helped me get out of the situation, and to thank him for that, it takes away from the strength and courage that I had to conjure. I already understand that I won’t ever feel fully ready to date, but respect me enough to let me make the choice for myself. I want to try this again,” your help will be appreciated.I stayed, longer than I should have stayed, because my faith in the lord was strong enough that I ‘knew’ I would live. Until then, questioning my readiness only pushes me further away from the idea. I can’t get over it because my life has been forever changed.Gradually, the scared and confused part of me became quieter. As I threw my backpack into the backseat of his convertible, he said, "Let's stop at my place, OK?The fear was overcome by the thrill—a goodlooking, single guy was actually interested in me, even though he was in his 30s and I was only 16. The awkward moment ended abruptly when the phone rang.