Engaging in cybersex activities with a minor can get you into a lot of trouble.
When I confronted him, he didn't understand why I was upset.
He said that having sex online was harmless and a way to "get off" without breaking his marriage vows (we've been married 10 years). A: This is a situation I see more and more often as the Internet becomes a staple in homes.
People assume that because they are with a person they know pretty well, they also know how their mate feels about these topics. Sit down with your husband to have this discussion.
If he has sexual desires that he talks about with women online, then ask him to tell you what those are. Are there risks that you might be willing to take in terms of new behavior?
Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.
This situation underlines the importance of checking in with one's spouse or partner about the various aspects of long-term relationships: finances, in-laws, jobs, children (if any), housekeeping, plans, and sex. So, even though you said your vows and have been together for a while, it sounds like the topic of online chatting and surfing porn sites never came up.
Essentially, these sites cater to open minded men, women and couples who are seeking discreet sexual encounters using Skype (or any other IM platform of their choice). Make sure that you clearly define your limits and what you’re willing to do both on and off camera.
These are not services for those of you seeking a real world long term relationship. Here is a sample of a well crafted profile: Single, average looking male seeking open minded female for discreet online cybersex.
The site is very user friendly and easy to navigate.
And there are lots of real women here seeking all types of sex encounters, both of the virtual and real life variety. It’s a new Skype Sex Contact portal that features easy billing, anonymity and privacy, and most important of all, thousands of true amateur Skype cam girls.
More and more people are turning to Skype for their cybersex needs.